Our Gemara on Amud Beis quotes a series of verses where Moshe asks to see God and God’s response. These verses are remarkable and hint at profound theological ideas. The verses (Shemos 33:18–23):

He (Moshe) said, “Oh, let me behold Your Presence!”

And [God] answered, “I will make all My goodness pass before you, and I will proclaim before you the name GOD, and the grace that I grant and the compassion that I show.”

“But you cannot see My face, for no mortal may see Me and live.”

And GOD said, “See, there is a place near Me. Station yourself on the rock and, as My Presence passes by, I will put you in a cleft of the rock and shield you with My hand until I have passed by. Then I will take My hand away and you will see My back; but My face must not be seen.”

What did Moshe really ask for, and what was his answer? According to the Gemara (Berachos 7a), Moshe wanted to better understand the issue of theodicy—essentially, how the righteous can sometimes suffer while the wicked thrive.

That is the straightforward explanation. The Rambam in the Moreh Nevuchim (I:20) adds a deeper exegetical layer to this discussion. As the Rambam often asserts, Chazal speak in limited ways regarding esoteric parts of the Torah. They will therefore state a brief idea that hints at a much larger conceptual framework. Moshe did not merely want to understand one aspect of God’s reasoning. He wanted to see God as He truly is, so that he could understand how God does what He does. His question about divine justice was merely one expression of that broader desire. This is what Moshe meant by seeing “the face of God.” God’s response—“you cannot see Me”—addresses this directly, yet God still allows Moshe to see His “back.”

What does it mean to see God’s back? In Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah (1:10), the Rambam explains that even when one does not see a person’s face, one can still recognize them by seeing their back, provided one knows them well. Metaphorically, God was responding to Moshe: “You cannot see Me for who I truly am in My full essence, but I will allow you to see enough that you will recognize My distinctness.” This parallels the idea discussed earlier (Psychology of the Daf, Menachos 31) that while we may not fully grasp God’s nature, we can apprehend the vastness and contours of what we do not understand.

In the Moreh Nevuchim (ibid.), the Rambam offers an even more subtle interpretation of the metaphor of God’s “back.” It is akin to the term “wake,” as one would use to describe the churning water left behind after a boat passes. That is, Moshe would come to understand God not by seeing Him directly, but by observing the results of His actions. In other words, Moshe would understand the existence and nature of God by studying how God manifests in the world.

However, when we consider this exchange between Moshe and God more closely—especially in light of the Rambam—we encounter a deeper logical problem. In Laws of the Foundations of the Torah (chapter 7) and in Shemoneh Perakim (7), the Rambam outlines the extensive prerequisites for prophecy. Beyond piety, character, and wisdom, the Rambam uniquely emphasizes the prophet’s intellectual capacity to understand God as closely as possible, without distorted or simplistic notions. Without such sophistication, one cannot qualify for prophecy, regardless of personal righteousness. (This stands in contrast to Rav Yehuda HaLevi in Kuzari IV:3.) If such intellectual refinement was a prerequisite for Moshe’s prophecy, how could Moshe have asked such an apparently naïve question—to see God—when even a child knows that God is “invisible”?

The most compelling answer I have heard is that Moshe’s question was process- and relationship-oriented. In essence, prayer itself seems futile, since God does not change. Yet we pray not to change God, but to change ourselves (see Sefer HaIkkarim 4:18), or to align ourselves with divine influence so that we may receive guidance and blessing (Moreh Nevuchim III:51). Moshe knew his request was impossible. He asked nonetheless, because he understood the power of prayer—namely, that the act of asking, of relating, can itself effect change. And indeed, it did. In relationships, we must never forget the importance of asking.

Translations Courtesy of Sefaria, except when, sometimes, I disagree with the translation

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Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, LCSW-R, LMFT, DHL is a psychotherapist who works with high conflict couples and families. He can be reached via email at simchafeuerman@gmail.com